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Zara's avatar

Oh, I can definitely relate to this. Spent so much time up until my early 20's chasing people like that, because we seek validation from "If I fit in with these people, I have made it to where I want to be in life." Tying our self-worth to others and their perception of us hanging out in pictures online when often leaving those fun events feeling alone and misunderstood. I think it was easier for Claire to be seen as cool and popular because it made people think she "made it" in OCD, despite the torment she would face from the group on the regular that people did not get to see.

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Kate's avatar

First of all, LOVE the Layne love! I feel like she's an under-appreciated character, but she's a stark contrast to the PC which is definitely needed in the books. Claire always has this internal battle about enjoying spending time with Layne, but needing to take any opportunity that arises to hang with Massie, even if that means ditching her bestie. I think she does this because she figures Layne will always be there, but every precious moment she gets with Massie could be her last if she does something wrong. I think as I've grown older, I value the friendships where you just have to show up as yourself so much more because we don't have the time or energy to put towards stressing over going out with friends! But there still can be that pressure of wearing the right thing to an event, impressing others you haven't seen in years, etc. Middle school problems are still relevant!

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