Hey GLU’s.
Welcome to our first episode of Ask a GLU! We had so much fun giving advice to our girlies. ICYMI, here are the guidelines for future submissions.
Ask a GLU: your new favorite place to get NON-PROFESSIONAL advice on friend drama, wedding drama, work drama, and pretty much any kind of social drama that makes you feel like a tortured seventh-grader all over again.
What is “Ask a GLU?”
We’ll tackle your real-life friend drama with a big-sister blend of honesty and heart. Our advice may not be what you want to hear, but it will always be what you need to hear. All responses are rated TSR for Thick Skin Required.
Types of Scenarios We’re Here For:
Friend Drama
Navigating friend group changes
Managing long-distance friendships
Setting boundaries with close friends
Dealing with friend group drama (even down to close reads of text messages)
Making new friends as an adult
Managing different friendship circles
Work Drama
Building professional networks
Setting boundaries with coworkers
Managing mentor relationships
Navigating office politics
Handling workplace friendships
Professional rivalry situations
Wedding Drama
How to establish boundaries with a ‘zilla
I can’t afford one more f*ing wedding
Why wasn’t I invited?
Help! My friend is marrying an LBR.
Ew! I am so not wearing that bridesmaid dress
Group Drama
Friend group events and planning
Social media boundaries
Group chat etiquette
Friend group traditions
Reconnecting with old friends
Managing social calendars
Example Scenarios We Can Help With:
“How do I maintain friendships when I’m the only one in my group starting a family?”
“My work friend keeps trying to turn our professional relationship into a personal one – help!”
“I’m the only one in my friend group who doesn’t make six figures, and it’s making social plans weird.”
“My sister and I work in the same industry and it’s getting awkward.”
“How do I tell my BFF I can’t be in their wedding party due to budget constraints?”
How to Submit Your Question:
Email thestateofthereunion@gmail.com with:
Subject Line:
Ask a GLU: [Your Problem]
Body:
Your Situation (300 words max)
What you've tried so far
Any relevant backstory
A creative nickname so you stay anonymous
What Makes a Great Ask a GLU Letter:
Focuses on complicated social dynamics
Includes specific details
Presents a clear question or desired outcome
Relates to real-life adult situations
Keeps it classy :)
What We Don’t Handle:
Legal advice
Medical situations
Content inappropriate for our community
Emergency situations should be handled by appropriate professionals
Privacy Things:
All submissions are confidential
Questions will be edited for clarity and anonymity
Only chosen questions will receive responses
Identifying details will always be changed
We’re here to help you navigate your social world with confidence, style and just a touch of that Westchester wisdom we all know and love.
Don’t wait: submit your Ask a GLU question today!
thestateofthereunion@gmail.com
xoxo,
Lisi & Ellen
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